I did use UltraVNC because it has sooo many features compared to any other similar available products. It was also very fast and had many refreshes per second. It is still the same, but crashy

It does crash other applications now and i cannot use it. Also, it uses very much CPU.
I tried realVNC ... this one does not use much of the cpu, but it does not detect few changes on the screen and is slower. Also, not enough features.
I really need this kind of apps. Which should i use? I'm on LAN (i need only for LAN).
When more big stable updates? I mean ... something like .. less cpu usage would be good and fewer crashes.
I almost forgot ... there's a problem with all the VNC apps i used. When i login to the server, the server monitor reduces the refresh rate, why? I have set 140hz and i see the screen like it's 60hz. In Windows the setting is the same (Desktop Properties > Display). It does not change the refresh rate like other apps (it does not do a big screen refresh - like when you manually change the resolution/refresh rate). What it does is nothing special, just you see the screen "flickering" like it's 60hz. When i quit it goes back to normal. Why? I know it sounds weird, but it's true.
I have win2k pro, sp4, nvidia geforce 4 mx 440. Monitor: iiyama vision master pro 451 19inch (i use it at 1024x768, 140hz).